Belated Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

November and December were the usual busy. On November 29, Misaje (where Fr. Edwin Boye, former bishop's chancellor, now is) became a full-fledged parish (St. John the Apostle). So I got a ride up there on the 28th with a friend of Fr. Paul (Mr Julius, a retired government official). Thursday night before the celebration, I spent at the house of the head mistress of the school. The next morning was a beautiful day, perfect for the celebration. It was a good turnout for a parish that is quite out of the way. We headed back to Kumbo in the late afternoon, but got a flat tire on the way (and a broken wheel mount so it couldn't be fixed on the road). After an hour or so, Fr. Paul called a friend of his who worked in a parish near the break-down and asked for a ride. The priest generously lent us his car for the rest of the evening so we could get back to Kumbo. In the course of this adventure, I became friends with Mr. Julius and he invited me to his house during the holiday where I met his wife and son and he claimed me as part of their family.

First Term officially ended on the Dec. 20th and Second Term began on Jan. 6th.

I spent most of my time off in Kumbo, except for the weekend when I went back to Tatum for the final profession of Br. Brendan - one of the Marist brothers who has been working at the school. It was similar to the final profession of Br. Evaristus last year in Shisong, but better since it was in Tatum. :) While in Kumbo I spent a lot of time with the Horne family - the kids remind me of my nieces and nephews back home. They took me into their home and made me part of their celebration of both Christmas and New Year's Eve. Eric and Logan both asked me what they should expect for the holidays in Kumbo, but I had to tell them that I didn't really know since each year I've done something different.

My first Christmas and New Years in Cameroon I was in Njinikom with the Hakes, where we went to Christmas Eve mass in the parish and New Years in the hospital. I spent most of my time there resting in their house, but I also went on hospital rounds with them a few times. On Christmas day, we passed out candy to the children (and some of the adults) in the hospital. It was a blessing to be able to bring a little joy to the patients.

My second year, I was in the Kumbo area for the holidays but was in Kikaikelaki (now a) parish (10 minutes from Kumbo) for Christmas. I spent New Year’s Eve with Sonja and Elinor (two Germans). That Christmas Eve mass was one of the best masses I have been to, ever. It was in a small village called Yeh where they have no electricity so the mass was done by candlelight. The building was very small, fitting maybe about 30 people. I went there with Fr. Paul and Sr. Rosalie (who works at the Bishop's House). When we arrived, no one was there yet because they hadn't been told there was to be a mass. Upon our arrival, the person who happened to be cleaning the church/chapel at the time rang the bell to let people know that a priest had arrived. By the time Father had his vestments on, people had started to gather. The way the people looked at me, I think they get very few foreign (i.e. white) visitors in Yeh.

So this year, as I said, I spent much of the holiday with the Hornes. On Christmas Eve, I helped make some cookies and in the evening we all went to mass in Bamkika'a which is a neighborhood at the northern end of Kumbo where SAC (St. Augustine's College) is located. It's probably about a mile walk (pretty level) from the Horne’s house to the current church in Bamkika'a which is on the grounds of the Youth Center. (They are building a new church a little ways up the road, but it's doesn't have a roof yet.) There was "low current" (low voltage) in town that evening, so most of the lights in the church (fluorescent tubes) were just flickering instead of actually turning on, which was very annoying and a bit headache-inducing. Overall, the mass was disappointing. The Hornes invited me to join them on Christmas morning as well, so I accepted the invitation and was surprised to find that "Santa" had brought me a present to their house - a nice pottery teacup and saucer from PresCraft (the Presbyterian local crafts store) in Bamenda. I am using it right now.

On New Years' Eve we managed to stay up until midnight and had a toast with non-alcoholic sparkling "wine"... we'd already been drinking sangria in the late afternoon and topped it off with Baileys after the kids where in bed. (Logan makes very good "tropical" sangria.) I had just come back from Tatum that morning for a special mass at the cathedral in support for the "Open Door" Day at the Youth Center. On New Years' Day, Eric and Logan and their friend Sara (visiting from New Mexico) came over to the Fathers' house for a nice simple private mass in the sitting room with Fr. Edwin Kewai and Fr. Paul. It was in the sitting room because Fr. Kewai injured his ankle a few weeks back and so is on crutches and therefore can't manage the stairs to the chapel very well. All in all, it was a good holiday.

I returned to school on Saturday, Jan. 4, to have a few days to prepare for school to resume. Br. Simon had gotten me to do some work when I was in Tatum on the 30th, so I also completed other pending tasks that day, which meant I could still relax on the 4th and 5th. Next week the TTC is having exams, so this week I have been typing the questions for most of the subjects. Plus, we posted the results of the pre-mock for Form 5 and Upper 6th this evening, so I had to enter all the marks this week. It doesn't take very long to enter marks into the computer, what often takes more time is chasing down the teachers to get them to give them to me. So it's back to the usual until the Easter holiday.

News from the homefront. Welcome to my newest nephew (#14) - Eric Michael Williams - born on Jan. 5th. ...Guess my prayers for a girl weren't strong enough this time. ;)

School In Session

Aah, I can hardly believe that it's been almost two and a half months since my last blog update. The school year has been busy as usual.

However, after Janice's visit at the beginning of October, Br. Simon decided that I have too much work on my plate... could be because I've had to miss some classes due to work in the office. So he searched around and found a part-time teacher to take over the English classes I have been teaching. She started this week. Since she's part-time, we also had to switch around a couple classes to fit her timetable. The fall-out is that now I'm full-time secretary on Mondays and Tuesdays; and the rest of the week I only have about 2 classes per day.

As school secretary, I get to enter the grades after exams, type any necessary documents for the administrative staff (fortunately Br. Simon types most of his own documents but Fr. Joe and the deans aren't as helpful), compile beginning of the year reports, run the photocopier, type the exam questions for the mock exams (and later for the promotional exams), etc. Br. Simon has decided that we can get income from the photocopier by allowing students and teachers to use the photocopier for a small charge per page. However, at present the photocopier and the computer are running out of the same outlet and there is not enough current to run them both at once, so whenever I need to turn on the copier I have to turn off the computer and vice-versa. Also, the copier doesn't like the cold and runs best when it has had a chance to warm up. Oh, and Brother had another idea for revenue by having a school phone and charging by the minute for usage and I am supposed  to monitor each call. Neither of these is difficult, but they do make for many interruptions.

Along those lines, the other day I was working in the office and one of the students came in to have some copies made. So I switched over to the copier (which I had to let warm up, since I hadn't used it yet that day). I had just started running the copies when I heard a squeaking from around the copier (note: the copier is on top of a cabinet) and next thing I know there's a paper jam. So, I open up the copier to un-jam the paper; and to my surprise the paper is fine and isn't jammed at all. Puzzled, I looked inside the copier to see what had jammed and I notice something gray and furry..... a rat (well, actually a mouse, but they call them rats here) had been squished between the rollers..... with it's tail, paws, and nose sticking out the other side. The problem then was how to get it out since the rollers would roll only one way. Brother called Pa Dora who runs a copy shop in Tatum to come and take a look; and he showed up the next morning. After looking at the problem for a little while, he had the brilliant idea of using a ruler to push the rat (mouse) back out of the rollers. The tail gave him a little trouble, but he got it unstuck and then scooped up the rat (mouse) on the end of the ruler to take it out of the copier. He brought it out like he was going to hand it to me and I just looked at him, so he took it and threw it outside. Then I had to find a rag and wipe out the inside of the copier to make sure there was nothing left of the rat (mouse) inside. So ended my latest adventure.

Thanks to everyone who sent me birthday greetings. I only just read them since I've been without internet for over a week. I've been invited to Kumbo for a Thanksgiving party hosted by some Wycliff missionaries, but I don't know yet if I'll be able to make it (depends mainly on if they do it on Thursday or Saturday). We have a LMH-MDA get-together in Mbingo (between Bamenda and Njinikom) the first weekend of December which I'm planning to go to... although Brother mentioned the other day something that he needed me for around that same time. Sonja and Eleanor (the German mother and daughter who were here last Christmas) came for visit in October so I took a day off and visited them in Kikaikelaki (where I also had a chance to greet the Cardinal's 116-year-old mother whose house they were staying at).

On October 20th, we celebrated the school feast day for the first time ever. (The feast of St. Pius X is actually in August and therefore not during the school year, so this year they decided to pick a day when school is in to celebrate it.) It started with Mass with the Catholic Education Secretary (Fr. Cyprian) presiding. He gave a very good homily on the lessons we can learn from the example of St. Pius X. After Mass, the celebration moved to the school hall and there was singing and dancing and speeches and finally food. After all the guests left, the students ended the evening with a social (music and dancing) until bed time.

The dry season has started (a little late) so now, besides regular power outages, we also get regular water outages. I am very grateful for the generator and well on campus. I have come to appreciate the value of good plumbing and a reliable water supply. In Southern California even in the middle a severe drought, there is always water in the tap, they just charge more for it and ask people to use less. The mud on the roads has turned to dust so getting places it easier (just dirtier) and we are praying (like we did last year) that the worst spots along the way get leveled out before the next rainy season otherwise the road may become impassible. (I think political promises are the same everywhere in the world.)

-Debbie

Back to Cameroon

Last week I went to a thanksgiving Mass for a newly ordained permanent deacon from Kikaikelaki. Deacon Marcel was ordained in Birmingham, UK where he has been living for the past 14 years. His wife and kids were with him to celebrate. I've gotten used to the Cameroonian accent so much that it was odd hearing his family (especially the kids) talking with a UK accent. There are no permanent deacons in this part of Cameroon, so they kept having to explain it to everyone. Since we've had permanent deacons at my parishes back in the States for so long, I was a bit surprised at the reaction and lack of knowledge here.

It made me think of things that we take for granted or assume are the same everywhere. We think that the way things are where we are is the way things are everywhere. Most of the time it's subtle things like "common knowledge" or even things like stereotypes. I've had to ask people here to explain things to me that they take for granted that everyone understands, and I've had to explain other things in return. I've learned that some idioms do not translate well across cultures. So it was a little weird when I was back in California this summer and didn't have to worry about that.

I spent most of the school break at home in California. I had a great time especially spending time with my family, even made a road trip out to Colorado. However, I'm glad to be back in Cameroon and Tatum in particular. School is starting this week... secondary school at least. The TTC will start later. 

I spent a good portion of the past two weeks in Kumbo. The Hornes (the LMH family) have settled in at SAC and there are 2 other Americans there with them this year -- Sarah and Alex, they came to Cameroon through their philosophy professor at Univ. of Colorado Boulder (same as Ilan 2 years ago). Also went to Bamenda for a one day get-together with all the other LMH/MDA groups that are now here in Cameroon. It was a strange feeling to be the "senior" in the group since I'm the one who has been here the longest.

This year I'm continuing to teach Form 1 English Language which I started mid-way through last year. That's in addition to Form 2 English Language and Form 1, 2, & 3 Computer Studies. Plus I've been asked to work as the school secretary. (Oh, and I'll still be teaching Music in the TTC.) Looks like it will be a busy year.

Things I've Learned

The school term has come to a close, GCE exams are finished and we only the CAPIEMP (TTC) exams to complete next week. The Hornes (LMH family that will be in SAC) are expected to arrive in Cameroon on June 26, so I'm planning to be in Kumbo that week to welcome them.

It's hard to believe that I have been here for almost two years. As I approach the two-year mark and get ready for a six-week holiday back in the States, I'd like to share a few of the things I've learned so far.

1. Things I didn't know could be done with vehicles:

  - Load a motorcycle on top of a small van (which are the buses here).

  - Fit 20 adults in a small van for a 4-hour drive.

  - Fit 10 adults in a Toyota Corolla.

  - Carry a dead pig while a passenger on a motorcycle.

  - Transport a family of 5 on one motorcycle.

  

2. Truisms that I've seen lived out:

  - The time for an event is when the event starts (not the scheduled time).

  - Who you know is more important than what you know.

  - The one who has a watch isn't the one who has the time.

3. Things I've learned how to do:

  - Wash my hair with a half gallon of hot water in a large bowl/bucket.

  - Walk on a muddy path without slipping (too much).

  - Walk in dress shoes on an uneven surface.

  - Tie a headscarf.

  - Give an hour-long talk.

  - Eat fufu (and cook it - in theory).

  - Sharpen a pencil with a razor blade.

4. Other things I've learned:

  - Personal space doesn't mean the same thing everywhere.

  - Four-wheel drive is a necessity not a luxury on some roads.

  - The road is wherever you can drive.

  - A child of six can carry and help take care of a child of two.

This list is just a short sample of what I've learned in the past two years and is by no means comprehensive. I know I will still learn much more.

Busy End of Term

I forgot to mention in my last post about the diocesan pilgrimage to Boyon Hill in Ndu (the next town after Tatum) on Friday, March 15. Many people hike from Kumbo and other parts of the diocese, starting on Thursday. We had many of them spending the night in Tatum. On Friday morning, everyone converges at the grandstand in Ndu for a blessing. Then they walk to Boyon Hill, which is a few miles outside of town, praying the Stations of the Cross along the way. At Boyon Hill there is a life-sized crucifix. When everyone has completed the hike, there is holy mass. This is only the third year for the pilgrimage. I was unable to go last year because of exams in school. This year the mass was celebrated by Bishop Agapitus, the Auxiliary Bishop of Bamenda, who is originally from Kumbo.

April was a very busy month. The first week was spent doing mock exams for the TTC, and then the secondary school classes began the second week. The third week, final teaching practice began for the TTC students and that last 3 weeks, with the final week being their evaluation. The TTC students were also finishing their term papers which were due at the end of April and I had agreed to type several of them. Some of them waited until the last minute to submit them for typing. Add to that the problems we've been having with electricity for the past several month. So I spent many nights typing as much as I could while the school generator was turned on for the students to study in the evenings. I was able to get them all done on time for the students to get them printed and submitted, but it was very stressful.

Also, I was appointed to work in the secretariat for the TTC exams, which meant that during all the evaluation phases (classroom teaching, oral exams, practicals, defense of term papers, and written exams) I am supposed to be in the office all day to help organize the exams and to tabulate the marks as they come in. Needless to say, busy-busy-busy.

In the first two weeks of May we finished the classroom teaching, the practicals (Agriculture, Productive Arts, and Home Economics), and the oral exams (Music, French, and General Knowledge). We also had promotional exams for Forms 1-4, Lower 6th (high school), and levels 1 & 2 of the TTC & ENIET. Oh yeah, in between everything else I was dong above, I had to set the promotional exams for all my classes. After the exams I had to mark them, but that was relatively easy.

This week has been much more relaxed. The TTC students are preparing for the defense of their term papers, the Form 5 and Upper 6th students are preparing for the GCE, and the rest of the students are preparing to leave for the long holiday - which means they are having to do a lot of manual labour to clean up the school compound. I got one of the students to dig a path for drainage in front of my house because the rain has been pooling there and threatening to flood the inside.

This weekend I'm heading to Bamenda for a meeting for the GCE computer practicals, which start on May 21. They would start on Monday, but 20th May is National Day in Cameroon (kind of like 4th of July). At the meeting I'll find ot where they're sending me (because they don't send people to supervise at their own schools). I'm hoping and praying that I get posted to SAC in Kumbo, because then it should be finished in one day and I can quickly and easily get back to Tatum for the defense of term papers which start on the same day. Since the meeting is on Saturday, I've contacted the Newburns (the LMHers there) and invited myself to spend the night with them so as to return to Kumbo and Tatum on Sunday evening, before leaving again on Monday afternoon for wherever I'm posted.

I'm going to miss the bishop's visit to Tatum on Saturday for the Confirmation of some of the students at St. Pius X and I'll miss the launching of our choir. Oh yeah, I'm in a choir. It's a new choir formed by one of the teachers. Most of the members are teachers in the local schools (primary and secondary). We chose the name "St. Francis' Choir" in honor of the new pope.

The secondary school is closing on Friday, May 24, with the awards ceremony on Thursday afternoon. That's why I hope to be back from the computer practicals quickly. Then the TTC graduation is on May 25. Then May 27 the GCE exams start; and this year we have the first batch for the Advance Level as well as the Ordinary Level. After the GCE, the TTC has their written exams. So we still have a ways to go before we can call the school year finished.

**Those of you in SoCal, during the long holiday I'll be home for 6 weeks (July 2 - August 16) for a family reunion and some other stuff.

****I thought anyone who reads this blog might like this link I just received - 'cause there's a picture of me in. It's to an article in L'Effort Camerounais (newspaper of the National Bishops' Conference of Cameroon) about an award that LMH & MDA received in October from the US Catholic Mission Association.    (http://www.leffortcamerounais.com/2012/11/lay-mission-helpers-association-and-mission-doctors-association-receive-prestigious-national-award-for-international-mission.html)